A Personal Favor for My Dad
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Chris here with a very personal update and favor for my Dad…
(FYI - a new article series and video training are in the works, so consider this post the calm before the next content storm. ) 
Long-time subscribers may remember that years ago my Mom (Mary Ann) battled breast cancer. Although it was difficult at the time, I pulled back the curtain to share that struggle with you in my email newsletter (back before blogs even existed).
With a great dose of humanity and understanding, my subscribers flooded her inbox with prayers, support and kind words that brought many smiles and helped her face the surgeries, treatment and the unknown.
Fortunately, she won that battle and has been cancer-free for 5+ years! To celebrate, we held giveaways for you, tied in our sales events with the Susan G. Komen for the Cure charity foundation and much more. I’m deeply grateful for the support you all gave her.
Now jumping ahead years later…
You may have realized that I’ve been “quieter” on the blog and with my emails for much of this year. There’s a good reason for that. And it’s time let you know why…
Toward the beginning of this year my Dad, Rich Zavadowski (one of my close friends, and also the creator of the “Government Contract Secrets” course my company publishes), became very ill…so bad that he had to stay home from work.
I’ll spare you all of the details, but the result was he looked like a pale ghost, with zero appetite or energy.
While the dozens of tests started to point toward a lymphoma, his lymph node biopsy continued to baffle the local pathologists and labs. It took almost three months of chasing down doctors and labs (totally unacceptable when you’re dealing with someone’s life!) until we got everything over to the National Institutes of Health (NIH)…specifically the National Cancer Institute.
Then within days this top notch facility finally nailed things down and handed my Dad a confirmed diagnosis: Stage IV Peripheral T-cell Lymphoma, unspecified. 
Basically his cancer was as advanced as it could be (appearing in his blood, lymph nodes, bone marrow and metastasized on his leg and a couple ribs). While lymphoma is the fifth most common cancer among men and women in the USA (approximately 74,340 new cases in 2008 alone), the type my Dad has is very rare.
Because so few people have this, there’s not enough data in the medical community to suggest the ‘best’ treatment for this (heck, there’s not even a standard treatment for this).
—- SIDE NOTE —
If you know anyone with ANY type of cancer…get them to an NCI “Comprehensive Cancer Center“ — because as we’ve quickly come to learn, the quality of care and expertise in the cancer field is all over the map. There isn’t always one right treatment…but there are wrong ways to treat (our initial doctor had recommended a surgery and treatment that were TOTALLY unnecessary…and could have killed him!). When someone’s life is involved, don’t settle for only the local doc’s opinion…get an expert to weigh in.
—- SIDE NOTE —
Well, after a few trying days and thinking long and hard about the options, my Dad decided to be part of a clinical trial (called a “protocol”) run by NIH’s NCI (a world-class, amazing facility that gets patients flying in from all over the place).
While it’s a much more aggressive treatment, with increased side effects and risks, it’s also something they are testing specifically for t-cell lymphomas. It involves 5 days of steady chemotherapy…repeated every 3 weeks over a period of about 4 months.
Anyway, I promised him at the beginning of this journey that I’d be there for every doctor’s visit, test, treatment and more. So that’s why I’ve been a little quieter this year — I’ve been helping Dad and Mom go through all of this, along with organizing all the test results, appointments and more. (And MAJOR credit goes to Mom — Mary Ann — who helps him through this 24×7. She’s an unsung hero in all of this!)
It’s times like these when you truly realize what a blessing having an online business is!
Now the National Cancer Institute estimates in January 2004 alone, there were 10.8 million Americans alive with a history of cancer. And this year, 1,437,180 new cases are expected. Survival rates have increased as detection *and* treatment methods have improved, but we’ve still got a long way to go.
Chances are you or a loved one have been touched by cancer, so you know first-hand how emotional and scary this journey is for an entire family.
That’s where YOU (and my personal favor) come in…
My Dad is going through chemotherapy as we speak, and soon he’ll receive follow-up test results showing how well treatment has worked so far. (Regardless of the outcome, he still has several more months of getting knocked on his ass by the chemo.)
Just like I did with my Mom years ago, I’d like to ask you to leave a comment on this blog with an inspirational thought or ‘get well’ message for my Dad, Rich Zavadowski.
I’m going to print the comments off and put them in a “Happy Thoughts” binder I’ve created for him to chronicle the outpouring of support (and emails) we’ve been receiving from family and friends online. Your kind words posted here will go directly into this special book for him.
With cancer and the drugs he’s on, there are some very tense, depressing days, so when he’s a little down or needs a “pick me up” to get his head back in the right place, he can just turn to any page and see how much positive energy is coming his way. It’ll help give him strength for when he beats this cancer and returns back to a normal life!
Thanks in advance for this favor — and stay tuned for some new surprises coming to the blog as a big thank you!
Chris
P.S. - Let’s not forget..my Dad is now a part of the “solution” for cancer - he’s on the cutting edge of research helping them learn more about this crazy disease. And some day down the road when they cure it, he’ll have played his part in that. You go, Dad.
P.P.S. — If you feel comfortable doing it, please leave him a positive note below on this blog post as he continues to battle this. It would mean the world to him (and my Mom and me).
He’s facing a very aggressive, rare cancer and can use all the positive energy, prayers and good thoughts you can send. We all know a smile and good thought can go a long way…and the right thoughts can change a life for the better!
From Lara
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you have a few hours or a few days when you feel down, it’s ok. Don’t beat yourself up for being upset. I don’t know how you feel, but I do know that sometimes you just have to feel sad so you can get back to being able to handle it. No one can do your treatment for you or give you a day off, which is tragic and unfair. You really should get a buddy who could do just that. But we are pulling for you and sending you all our love. I wish I could give you a day off.
I have great feelings about your treatment. I think you made the right decision.
When I’ve been really down, the thing that helped me was I closed my eyes and pictured every person I love. And I felt that feeling when it starts in your chest, and then I imagined that love spreading throughout my entire body. I try to expand the love feeling so I can feel it in every cell of my body at the same time. For me it’s like a warm soothing tingle. It may sound a little silly, but it always makes me feel at peace.
****Big Hug****
P.S. - Don’t give the nurses too much of a hard time.
I know how you are!
From Alice Flanders
Hi Rich. I am sorry to hear of your troubles. I cannot imagine how tough this must be on you. You do have a very successful son who I am sure is a great help. Alice
From Greg Pregon
Rich,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Focus on gettting better not the cancer, and miracles will happen.
Greg Pregon
From Theresa
Hi Chris, just wanted to pass along a note letting you know I am sending positive energy and thoughts for your dad and your family.
All the best,
Theresa
From Tim
Rich, I was very touched by the kindness and thoughtfulness of your son to reach out to his network of friends for support. You should be very proud of Chris and that speaks a lot about you, sir. I have prayed for you and your collegues in the same race. Fighters are always winners…. tim.
From Sandor Ochoa
Dear Rich,
The Lord be with you!
Have faith and hang in there.
We’ll be praying for you.
Sándor
From Ruthe
Rich, think of all the best times of your life. Be a positive energy and love every minute you can share with your loved ones. Live, Laugh and Love! All the best to you and focus on the good…better…best life has to offer. Take care.
From LEON
LAUGHTER,PEACE & BLESSING
From Rod
Rich, I wish you peace, health and prosperity. Read the attached note from Joel Osteen. It will bless you…
He is the Healer
Today’s Scripture
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3).
Today’s Word from Joel and Victoria
Aren’t you glad that God is a healer! It doesn’t matter what is “broken” in your life today, God’s nature is to bring you complete healing. Do you need healing in your body? Your mind? Heart? Finances? Relationships? God is your healer. Notice what the Psalmist says in this verse: He binds up their wounds. In the natural, if you have a broken arm, it doesn’t just heal over night. The doctor makes a cast to hold it in place and protect it. He binds up your wound. In the spiritual realm, God does the same thing. He wraps Himself around your brokenness and protects the wounded area until it is strong enough to function properly again. The Bible also says that He is a restorer. That means that when He does a work of healing in our lives, He makes us better than we were before. If you’re going through the healing process today, know this: it may take longer than you planned, but God is binding up your wound. He is protecting you and healing you. He will bring you out better and stronger than you were before. He will take you to a place of complete healing so that you can live the life of victory He has in store for you.
A Prayer for Today
Father in heaven, thank You for being my healer. Thank You for restoring every area of my life. I give You everything that I am today. Use me for Your glory. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
From Robert
Here’s wishing the best for you and your family. My mother was treated at NIH well over 25 years ago and I can tell you, that they provide the best treatment in the country. My best thoughts and my prayers are with you.
From Peter
Keep your spirits up focus on all the good in your life. My best for a full recovery.
From Robert
Hi Rich, Keep smiling, & think only of good times you’ve had with family, friends & workmates, negative thoughts create negative energy, which nobody needs.
my mother got cancer at age 80, & she refused “Chemo” & I would call in to see her three times a week, & every time I walked in & asked “How are you mom?”
she would reply “I haven’t got it”, & she was given 6 to 9 months to live & passed away aged 92, So hey Rich, give it your best.
From Chuck Bartok
Chris,
Shirley & I sahre with with the times opast and times ahead.
For the past 5 months My wife has been giving her Father 24/7 Care.
Just yesterday after exhaustive test we all realized he has just weeks.
I appreciate the strenght and love my Father-inLaw has and is sharing with his family,
and I especially am honored to be married to such a inselfish woman as his daughter.
Watching Humanity for 6 decades has shown me what resiliency and strength the Human posseses, if they are deeply founded in faith and Love.
Our Prayer and wihes to you and your family
From Barbara
My thoughts, hopes and prayers are with you and your loved ones at this really tough time.
Having gone through breast cancer nearly 5 years ago (clear now thankfully) I know at first hand what a traumatic time you must be having. I found it particularly hard since I’d lost my husband who was only 48 to a massive heart attack, totally out of the blue, just a year earlier.
I clung to the love, support and prayers of my lovely daughter who was only 10 at the time and my wonderful mum and dad. Their strength pulled me through the difficult days just as I know your family and friends will be rallying around for you.
I know that you are facing a much, much tougher time than I ever did due to the radical chemo.treatment you’re undergoing but you’ve just got to keep on fighting back - don’t let it beat you. It’s little comfort when you’re suffering all the nasty side-effects and feeling so ill but you are doing something wonderful for your fellow human beings by taking part in this new research. That’s amazing.
I pray that there will be good news for you and your family in the coming weeks. Keep fighting.
From Ron
Rich, don’t know you personally and I only know your son through email. All I can say is this, knowing your son and his integrity, and seeing how close he is to you, well lets just say “the apple does not fall far from the tree”. You can and I presume are very proud of your son as he is of you. It is like Lara says in her post above, focus on the people you love and the love they have for you. Focus on bright days, beautiful sunsets, stars in the night sky. The beauty that is all around us and the greatness that lies within us all.
This world is a great place because of people like you and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and may you only feel the love and caring of all of the people who are on and at your side every moment of the day.
Good luck my friend and all the best
Ron
From Brennan Kingsland
Dear Rich,
You are brave and smart - brave to be testing a rigorous chemo program and smart to have sought a second opinion.
As an RN who has worked with numerous cancer and hospice patients, I can tell you that those two qualities are in your favor for long-term success in your health battle.
My husband and I have BOTH survived those supposed death sentences and are going strong. You can do it too!
I would like to suggest that you get a daily dose of laughter and silliness. My husband and I watched the most ridiculous movies over and over cause they made us laugh.
As a matter of fact, one of our favorite movies is ISHTAR, because the characters keep struggling hysterically as a team through adversity. We love that movie and it was voted “The worst movie of 1989″. No accounting for tastes, is there?
LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH! is a wonderful motto and it works!
Sending you love and prayers from a couple of old survivors,
Brennan
From Dee
Hi Rich,
I’m sending you positive thoughts during your health challenge. Whenever life for us becomes overwhelming, don’t forget God’s promise that he will carry us when we need some extra help to travel our journey. I am sure that God is with you and I pray that you feel his presence everyday.
My thoughts and prayers for successful treatment go out to you.
Sincerely,
,Dee
From Yvonne Chihak
May you find the strength that’s always within to help you and your loved ones navigate this period of your experience.
Many Bessings!
From Bill Simms
Chris, it’s good to known your Dad caught this is time to be able to followup with treatment. Rich keep a positive attitude, be strong an you will pull through it.
Last year my Dad was released from the hospital, after the Doctors told him there ws nothing they could do, due to the advanced condition of his cancer. My oldest daughter I got on to the plane that weekend and were at the Houston airport, when we got word Dad had passed away. He had so many other medical conditions, that somehow the cancer had gone undetected.
So be grateful for the time you have with family and loved ones. None of us know when the Lord will call us to be with him.
I was able 3 weeks with Mom after Dad passed away and put together a memorial site for Dad while I was at home in Mississippi. See the site at
http:/www.BillSimms.net
Bill Simms
Everett WA
From Robert
Hi Chris, some info for you. Google a herb called “Graviola”, & also “Pau’D Arco’, & “Cats Claw”, & then check out “Marine Phyto Nutrients”. Seeing your Dad is going to have “Chemo” I would suggest that he take some Acidopholous & Bifodus; which are live friendly bacteria that the digestive-system needs to help digestion;
as the ‘Chemo” kills off the body’s friendly bacteria, also a Multi Vitamin & Mineral supplement would be more than helpful, & after the “Chemo” he needs to boost his immune system again, so you might also have a look at “Echinacea”.
I would like to state a fact to you, & that is:- the Human-body is meant to be in a negative-ph state, & cancer CAN Not live in a negative-ph environment.
You might also want to Google “Natural Cures for Cancer” &”Natural Therapies for Cancer”.
I hope the above info is helpful to you, & please note, that all of the above helped my Mother live an extra 12 years.
Good luck, & keep well,
“We are what we eat”
From Valerie Lacasse
Having a good team is great, and there are various choicesl
You have chosen the Allopaths, see them with the help of God doing that Healing
Ultimately emotional well been is another key along with some Spritual Strength which comes from
Jesus, God whoever
A happy positive attitude, feel down but do not allow it to consume you, focus on positive. visualize that you are better, pray if you do. There is aperson called ADAm the Healer check the book the video I have given as gifts, get your son to check that out. I have several family member who survived. some refused treatment, some chose surgery. So good Luck Be well Valerie
From Alice Schewene
Hi Rich,
I am saddened to hear of your news, yet at the same time I am in awe of your son Chris. Cancer is a hard thing to deal with and many times because people feel helpless they abandon those they are closest to because for some reason they can’t deal with it. I praise you on the way you raised Chris - because as tough as it is for him, he’s facing it, he’s there for you & others, he’s finding solutions, he’s reaching out to others, he’s asking for help. So many people are afraid to ask for help, but its in the asking that we receive and in the receiving we become stronger to give more of ourselves to others. And when we give our best to others, then they in turn learn to give the best of themselves.
I can’t say I understand why things happen in life or why you are faced with cancer. But I know there are reasons - reasons we may never understand. And I just ask that you look at some of the blessings in this. I bet you feel so much closer to Chris and others that you couldn’t have possibly experienced without going through this. Closer and sharing a love that only you can understand the depth of this love. So on your down days which is normal to have, I challenge you to look at some of the blessings that have come out of this, for not only are you receiving blessings because of this, but others are too and you’ll never know how deeply you’ve touched peoples lives, but just look at obvious ways you have and hang onto those moments so you can draw on them on less than optimal days.
I want to wish you the best in your recovery. You are blessed and you are blessing others!
Alice
From Patty
Rich, You are making good decisions. You have a family that loves you and much good energy coming your way from your sons extended family. As everyone else is saying don’t give up, there is always a way out. Like the scriptures say ” Keep searching and you will find.” That’s a rule of the universe. The answers’ out there.
Warm thoughts for you always.
Patty Zervas
From Gloria Zeigler
Hang in and think positively about your outcome. God made our bodies to heal themselves, and He must be in control. #1 is to make sure you are accepting Christ as your Saviour. Our problem is that, in order to rejuvenate our bodies, we need to put back into them the nutrients that God used to build them. I have a son who is facing possible ampuutation because of what we believe was medical malpractice when he had some surgery to correct some things that needed to be corrected as a result of a serious accident at his work in 2004. The medical field had no way of treating the staph infection in his ankle bone. At this point, they are almost requiring that he have the amputation. We have him on a regimen of food supplements which have saved several people who were at death’s door with cancer. What they did was to rebuild their immune system and they were healed. My son’s last tests showed that the supplements were killing the infection, and we are believing that the bone building supplements will restore that ankle bone. Our problem is getting the medical profession to give him time to heal. I believe God can heal you and give you back the life you once had. If you want information about the building of the immune system, etc,, I would be only too happy to share it.
From Chuck
Rich, you are blessed, sir….with a son who loves you enough to share your ordeal with his online community…with friends and family and most of all a Saviour who
cares more deeply than any of us ever could for every soul He has brought into this life. In God’s Sovereign Will, everything we experience has a purpose to make us look to Him, trust Him and thereby grow stronger, love more deeply and overcome the challenges of this span of time we can life.
My prayers and hopes are with you that you will overcome and great things will follow because you have followed this path that God has given you. Rejoice, for you will recover if you trust in Him.
From Phil Turner
Just remember this and Belive!!!
Angels
~ An Angel By Your Side ~ May you always have an Angel by your side, watching out for you in all the things you do. Reminding you to keep believing in brighter days and finding ways for your wishes and dreams to take you to beautiful places. May you always have love, comfort and courage giving you hope that is as certain as the sun and the strength of serenity as your guide. May you always have an Angel by your side, someone there to catch you if you fall. Encouraging your dreams, inspiring your happiness, holding your hand and helping you through it all. In all our days, our lives are always changing, tears come along as well as smiles. Along the roads you travel, may the miles be a thousand times more lovely than lonely. May you always have rainbows after every storm and hopes to keep you safe and warm. May you find someone wonderful to love and a dear friend in whom you can always confide and give you the kind of gifts that never, ever end .
From Olwyn Noone
Hi Rich.
I had a sister who died 19 years ago from cancer, I know she is in heaven now with our heavenly Father. I have fought cancer three times in the past 30 years and God has healed me each time. I fight with Him and tell him it is not fair, three times is too much, but He never gives more than we can handle and is with us always. Do Not give in or up to Satan, God is always in control. Use this illness to praise and glorify God, use it to testify to His comfort and strength. Use this illness in any way you can, then step back and watch God work a miracle. I am a prayer intercessor at my church, (Full Gospel) in Kibler Park, Johannesburg, South Africa and have seen many miracles of God’s healing power. Rest assured I have a book that I write all prayer requests in and they do not get crossed off the list, until God answer, your name is now in the book and will remain there until your healing is complete. I will also pass on by text message on my mobile to our prayer group and friends, this will be forwarded to hundreds of God’s children who will all stand in and continually be praying for you. If He can cure me three times, He can do it for you. Just stay strong in faith, put your hand in His. His Word says that He will never let us go, this is true.
God’s promises are like the stars, the darker the night the brighter they shine. God is great, life is good taken one step at a time with your hand in His. Keep faith, remember when you feel like you cannot pray and do not know what to say, He is there and looks into your heart and sees all, He understands, has mercy and an abundance of Love for you. Grab His hand now and never let go. I have a load of encouraging little poems and I will send you one every now and then, just to remind you that you are not alone, God is with you and there are a lot of people who care, even if you have not met them. Love is God’s weapon and strength that He gives us to share with each other, seen or unseen. Be strong and may God bless and strengthen you.
Love in Christ,
Ollie Noone, South Africa
From Svetoslav
Hi Rich,
I am 67 and I also have son and daughter. Their great support in everything helped me in different situation. You have great son, he really cares of you. Think how many good things you did in your life and how many good things you will do when you fully recover. Your family, your friends, people in other countries, like me, we all wish you to be strong, positive, it will help your body to win the fight.
I wish you to be the winner.
Svetoslav
From Karen S., R.N.
Hello Rich,
Words cannot say how timely your sons email was today! ( I was wondering if I had unsubscribed as I had not heard from him in a while.) While I was at the computer here wallowing in my own self pity, God threw Chris’ email at me saying “Wake up, and realize what is important.”Reading his email brought me back to when I took care of both parents with cancer. It was a most trying time for all, but the depth of caring and relationship bonding at that time was unequaled. Cherish the love, tears, laughter and memories. Those are the things that bring us through the tough times. Rod beat me to it by quoting Joel Osteen, but he often says “We are the children of the most high God. He will see us through with our faith. Our faith in Him is required for His action. No matter what happens, you and your family will prevail in His eyes. Is that not what we are here for? You are special because you have been chosen by God himself to help others - what a compliment He gave you! You are obviously worthy of his faith in you!
I’ll pray for you daily but something tells me He already has it taken care of!
Best Regards,
Karen S., R.N.
From Edith
Dear Rich
Eight years ago I too was diagnosed with cancer and can share with you the shock, disbelieve and a whole range of other emotions that one goes through at that stage.
It is very important to go with the flow and thank God continually for being healed. With every chemo, each radiotherapy and every pill I affirmed: “I thank you God for the healing tha is now taking place”. Keep positive and help yourself to a good dose of healing. My prayers are with you.
From Eliane Carbajal
Dear Rich,
i just wanted to wish you much strength, love, happiness and endless blessings. The human body is a very amazing thing and has the ability to cure itself of everything.
I hope you feel sparky and healthy again very soon and are able to live and enjoy many many more years.
Even though I might be far away, my prayers and deepest wishes are with you.
You have brought a wonderful son to this Earth and I’m sure you are an amazing dad.
The best advice I can give is just to get lots of fresh air, nurture and spoil yourself with all the beautiful things you enjoy doing, watch funny movies, spend time with loved ones and know that you are in Gods hands and you don’t need to worry.
scientifically speaking it is true that the body cannot have disease if it has an alkaline ph. The ideal ph to have is between 7.3 and 7.4 you can purchase cheap ph sticks from the pharmacy to test your blood and tissues to see how acidic you are. Then I would just try to do as much as possible to to get to a healthy ph and your body will heal itself.
I have placed your name on this website too: http://www.paramahansayogananda.com and now you will have hundreds of very special people praying for you.
I send you all our warmth and love from Peru and wish you the world.
Kindest Wishes and immense love from afar
Eliane, Miguel & Lakysha Carbajal xxx
From Paul D. Guyon
Hi Rich,
I’m sorry your having to take all the crap you’re taking. I lost my father to alzheimers 22 years ago. I miss him very much.
He and I made peace with each other just before he left this world and I can tell you it was the most important thing we ever did with our relationship.
Today I am a better man and father than I ever was because of his influence on me AFTER he left.
Once I had kids, I realized I was more like him than I ever thought. What a wake up call that was.
I’m sorry I can’t take your pain away but I can offer some advice. Get close to your loved ones and tell them how much you love them and what you think of them.
Tell them stories about your life. Tell them your mistakes and what you learned from them. Maybe they’ll learn from you too. Tell them everything.
Your story will live on through them as they tell their kids.
God Bless You Rich, have a speed recovery and take care.
Paul
From Kathy
Rich,
What an amazing man you must be to have become a father to your wonderful son! You must have integrity, thoughtfulness, patience, generosity, and a host of other great qualities.
Use those very positive qualities to focus on getting strong, having courage and hope even when you are afraid, and letting those who love you be a part of your treatment and recovery. So often we feel that we are in it alone, but any threat to one of us is a threat to all, and meeting this challenge head on with your family by your side is the strongest medicine.
Warm wishes for wellness and improved energy soon!
From Charles Attal
Hi Chris,
First let me say that cancer is not a death sentence. I am a survivor myself and understand the fears, anxiety and depression that goes with this disease when you hear “you’ve got cancer.” As a nutritionist I was diagnosed in 1999. Thank God for Dr. William Donald Kelley who treated 33,000 patients in 38 years with a 95% cure rate. Yes, there is a program your dad can follow. It is not cheap but reasonable compared to many alternative methods. I work with many colleagues, have published a book for Dr. Kelley who passed away in 2006 (not from cancer). He had pancreatic cancer and given 2 months, cured himself and was cancer free for 42 years. His demise is questionable and I will not enlarge on it. Miine had spread to the hips, spine, shoulders, did not have any chemo, radiation or surgery, in my 80’s and still practicing and working with many patients who are getting results. Don’t give up — there are many things you can do and products that will help
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Be positive, do the right things and you will see results. Stay well and God bless from my heart to yours and your dads.
From Alonso
Hi Chris
Our prayers are with you and your family for a speedy recovery for your Father leave it in Gods hands and he will put that good health shield over your dad while he is going thru his treatments.
God blessed
From Bettye
Reaching out to strangers in a time of emotional vulnerability is not so daunting when you are in a community network of people as caring as those who have sent cheers your way. Add mine. My sister was once a patient at NIH after I, too, found that I felt better knowing such a resource provided more investigational results than some our family had previously used. So, feeling more connected to you because of the way your son has expressed himself and shared so touchingly about you, I no longer feel like a stranger to either of you. In my head and heart, I believe that you will face your challenges with added strength knowing you are now hugged in spirit by a global circle of well-wishers. And, you are in my sincerest prayers.
Be Well.
Bettye
From Carol
Hello Chris’s Dad
Keep happy and laughing - the best medicine! Get Chris to bring you some old movies to watch like What’s Up Doc, the Pink Panther, National Lampoon, Bird on a Wire, RV,some really old slapstick stuff like Laurel and Hardy etc.
Read the Stephanie Plum books starting with One for the Money….Guaranteed a huge laugh even for a guy!
Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Carol
From Danny
Rich,
I wish you well. Hope the treatments work quickly for you and you can be in remission quickly telling us your survivor story.
All the best to you!
Danny
From Bruce
Rich:
May you find strength and comfort in the dawning of each new day,
and may God grant you the many blessings of His healing and hope.
Will keep you in my prayers that God will soon restore you to complete
and vibrant health.
Semper Fidelis
From Martin
Hi Rich
I’m sorry to hear about your health challenge. I’m praying for your full recovery. We serve a God who is still the same as He was yesterday and will be the same forever. He is Jehova Rafa, the God of healing, and He still heals today. I pray that you will experience His special touch and His inner strength.
Be blessed
Martin
South Africa
From Reinaldo Reyes
Hi Rich.
We do not know each other but guess what…..We are all humans….We are all part of the same One……I am sure my energy and prayers will help you get better.
I wish you a prompt recovery.
Regards
Reinaldo
From William
God loves you and so do I.
From Irven
Hello Rich I’m Prying for you, and knowing you’ll beat it. With all my love and support, GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
From Kim
Rich,
Nothing can beat us that we don’t give power over us. You are doing all the right things to maintain the power over this illness. When you are able, you might want to check out Healingstillness.com. It is amazing and has helped a lot of people. May God’s Grace be with you!
Kim
From Pat Eubank
Chris,
God is still the same God, and He wants us walking in divine health. I ask the Lord to rebuke the spirit of infirmity off of your father, and send the healing angels to him.
There is so much from doctors now, and I had a CD from a Doctor that had cancer, they cut some out, but could not get it all.
She started juicing fruits and vegetables. You can get her CD from “HALLELUJAH ACRES” hacres.com for the CD by Lorraine Day, M.D.
Also there is a place where you can order capsules that have 17 different kinds of fruit and vegetables that doctors are recommending for people who don’t get their 17 fruits and vegetables a day. Juicing is best though. The Dr. who did the CD has been totally healed for years. God is the healer, but He also gave us doctors.
God bless your father and all of the family.
From Jaqi
Hey Rich & Chris, Thanks so much for sharing your story… Often times it’s easier to hold things within because of all the uncertainties, but your courage and strength are two forces that are already at work on your behalf. Being able to reach out in a time of need to ask for the support of others not only opens your lives for a multitude of blessings and miracles, but it gives others the opportuntiy to be the ‘giver’. We all need that experience too!! Hold strong to your beliefs and trust that ‘all things do indeed work to the good for those who trust in God!’ Your faith and belief in Your creator and your body is what will bring you through. Focus on the good, on what you desire and keep an attitude of gratitude at all times. Put no thought to worry or fear. Those have no place in the area of faith and trust. Laugh long, hard and often. Laughter is good for the soul and keeps us smiling. You will be held tight to my heart in thought and prayer. Sincerly, Jaqi
From kate
Chris;
I was my sister’s caregiver while she took chemo and radiation for breast cancer. The resource I found most useful was http://www.livestrong.org.
The best part about it is the survivor stories.
I would say to your dad, while the treatment for cancer can encompass your life, you are NOT the disease. Remember and visualize your best self.
Be well,
Kate
From Jeffrey
Hello Chis. I will be praying for your dad and your entire family. I am also drealing with stage four prostate cancer which has spread to my bones and at this time undergoing radation and then chemo. Chis your dad will be added to support group and we will be praying for him.
From Vince
This is easier said than done but it does work if you totally believe it does.
Totally block out any thoughts that you have of bad health and expect to be fully recovered soon and act to the extent that you can as if you are getting better now.
best wishes and speedy recovery
Vince
From Joe Rubino
Rich,
I wish you great stength, peace of mind, and faith as you work through this latest challege. There is good in everything - it just takes a bit more searching for at times. Isn’t it great to know that you have so many people praying for you and wishing you well?
Miracles do happen all the time.
Wishing you strength, love, and a return to health.
Joe Rubino
From Paul Klein
Hi Rich!
My family and I are lifting you up in prayer. Nice inspiration from Chris to offer this space for you with thoughts and wishes from friends.
My family has been touched by cancer, as have several friends. One close friend’s wife has been stricken with the lymphoma as well, and has been in great spirits most days, down some as well, but is receiving similar treatments.
May your day be blessed, no matter what the cancer is doing. I pray that you and Chris have more years to share together!
Paul Klein
From Barb
Rich - all best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery. My thoughts are with you and your family as you journey through treatment back to health.
From Susan
Hello Rich,
My prayers are with you during your recovery. You must be a great dad because your awesome son has reached out to all of us to cheer you. It is not easy to be ill and chemo can be a real bear to fight. I was recently in a serious auto accident and a friend brought me silly movies and cartoon books to laugh at. There were times when my concentration was not there, but the comedies kept me laughing. I know they sped up my recovery. Try hard to keep laughter in your recovery. A positive attitude can create miracles! We are all behind you and pray you will soon be well.
Blessed be Susan
From Gary
Keep smiling, we are not defeated until we defeat ourselves.
Good luck and best wishes.
Gary
From Penny Hilburn
all the very best of strength, prayers and positive thoughts going your way!
From Dee Dee
Rich and Chris,
You are in my prayers. I agree with the many posters who have encouraged positive thoughts, and turning to God. I also wholeheartedly agree that doing natural things to bolster your already ravaged immune system during your treatments could be the key to sustaining your health. Although some question whether antioxidants and other types of nutritional support are helpful, I have seen research and have personal experiences that show otherwise. You just have to be careful to choose quality. There are many books out there that you might find interesting. One of my favorites is a book called The Healing Power of 8 Sugars. there is also some research in the arena of parasites and PH balance. I think there is some validity in all of it, but I wouldn’t say that any one approach is comprehensive all by itself. Some have suggested the power of positive thinking - I have looked into the Mozart Effect a little, and have come to the conclusion that it couldn’t hurt, and it is so inexpensive.
I look forward to hearing updates about how well you are doing!
Sharing Hope,
Dee Dee
From Ron Nelson
Hi Rich, Winston Churchill once said, “Never, never, never give up!” My thoughts and prayers are with you. Ron Nelson
From Michelle Provencio
Hi Rich and Chris!
I know that many prayers will include you right now, I will be praying as well! What a great and powerful thing prayer is!! I also want to mention laughter as a great medicine! Rent all the movies and old television shows that will make you laugh, a good hard belly laugh!! Do that as often as you can!!! The positive vibrations you will create can really help the healing!! When there are hard times, and the little voice in your head sounds negative, just tell it to be quiet and do something that brings you joy! God Bless You and Keep You!!
Live life to its fullest!
~ Michelle
From gary schnitz
Chris @Rich I know what your felling I myshelf lost my grilfriend to cancer so my prayers are with you both stay strong and may god be with you hope you the best GARY.
From Kevin
Gary, In spite of the fact that I don’t know you, I would like to extend my best wishes and God’s blessings on you and your family. I know you and your family are going through a very trying time but hope you are all comforted by the prayers of your fellow Americans and friends. Kevin
From Lynn Rios
Awhile back I ran across this quote and it hit me so hard I had to write it down and save it. I was cleaning the little pile of notes off of my desk just before I read my email and I thought…somebody out there needs to hear this…I wonder who it is. Then I read the email from Chris, so I guess God had me save this precious gem just for you!
“I do not at all understand the mystery of grace - only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us.” — Anne Lamott
Through the cycles of growth and pruning in our lives, we are able to grow closer to God and experience true relationship with Him. Sometimes the hardest of times prove to bear the most fruit, so I encourage you to lean on the Lord and all of the little details will take care of themselves.
Your son is a very special guy to be so committed to both you and his mother. It speaks to your integrity that you have raised a son who knows the true meaning of “Honor thy father and thy mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” EX 20:12
I will remember you in my prayers.
Lynn
From Simon Stepsys
Focus on getting better & perfect health.
You live forever in spirit, mind & soul.
Love to you & all your family.
From Anthony
Dear Rich,
May the Lord be with you in your time of need.
I wish you a speedy and full recovery.
God Bless you.
Anthony
From Kenneth Stoner
Hi,
Sorry to hear about your dad. I want you to know that as I remember from time to time
I will be praying for not only your dad but for you and the whole family who in many ways suffer along with the afflicted. I don.t know if you are a born again believer in the LORD JESUS CHRIST or not but I pray that you, your family and your dad may truly believe on the LORD JESUS CHRIST and be saved.
Just remember when the load gets heavy he tells us in HIS WORD that “We should cast on HIM our every care for he cares for us.”
I wish you all well and pray that the treatment is successful.
God Bless
From Anastacia
I will keep you in my prayers. Be strong and never loose faith as you battle this disease. The Lord God is with you so you are not alone in this situation. Stay positive and do all you can to enjoy the fruits of life and live fully everyday. Treasure every moment with your family. There is HOPE! Get well.
From Sheila
Hi Rich,
My prayers and good thoughts are with you!
You’ve raised an amazing son, and he’s a blessing to this community. Thank you for Chris, and for your generous spirit.
I’m certain your angels are walking with you through this journey, and are guiding you every step of the way. I’m glad you found the right doctors to help you.
May you have the peace that passes all understanding. “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, and lean not on your own understanding, In all of your ways, acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.”
God bless you and your family! Please let us know when you’re healthy again
From Don
Attend to my words, incline your ear to my sayings.
Do not let them depart from your eyes;
keep them in the midst of your heart;
For they are LIFE to those who find them and HEALTH to all their flesh.
Proverbs 4:20-22
From Bobby C. Jetton
God Bless You Many thousand people have beat cancer and lived happily after it. So with God’s blessing you will too.
Sincerely, Bobby
From Jerry Reeder
Hello Chris and Rich,
I just read Chris’ email after taking my mother to the Cross Cancer institute in Edmonton. She just finished her first week of Chemotherapy. My thoughts and heart are with you Rich.
May both our loved parents have fast and speedy and recoveries.
From Emori Toloi
My heart cries out for you. I lost my dear wife about 16 months ago to cancer and it was not an easy time for her as well as for me and our 10-year old son. But I’m always encouraged by the memory she left behind - especially how she chose to remain positive and continued to impart to us what ever positive instructions she could offer for our physical, mental, psychological and spiritual wellbeing.
Her physical health may have been deteriorating, but in all other areas, she was a source of inspiration, encouragement and a tower of strength. She chose to continue to serve us faithfully in those areas right to the end - despite all odds.
Sometimes, just dwelling on positive thoughts and how our life’s experience can be used to serve others do bring about great satisfaction, comfort and real peace of mind.
As far as your physical condition is concerned, I don’t know whether this piece of information would help improve your health but there’s no harm in learning about this revolutionary product called x2o - a water-based nutritional product that helps fully hydrate your entire body, provides 70 plus trace minerals (in the exact form your body recognizes and can use straight away), and helps alkalize your body. It is a medical and scientific fact that the cells of a diseased body are acidic while the cells of a healthy body are alkaline. As Dr. Otto Warberg ( 1931 noble prize winner - Physiology) stated, “if your internal environment is changed from an acidic, oxygen-deprived environment to an alkaline environment full of oxygen,,,,viruses, bacteria and fungus cannot live”. And again in his book “Alkalize or Die”, Dr. Theodore Baroody stated, “The counless names attached to illness do not really matter. What does matter is that they all come from the same root cause: too much tissue acid waste in the body”.
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I wish I had fully known about this particular product when my wife was still around. But i believe in sharing information that could help improve the lives of others and it is my sincere prayer and hope that you will soon find the solution to your health challenges and the strength and the determination to positively move on in life no matter what comes.
From Fred Raley
Hi Rich,
Keep your spirits up. I am not sure what the real mechanism is but they say that positive, happy people live longer. I know this may not seem like a great time to be happy but heavens, it’s worth a try. SMILE!
Like everyone else, we know your super great son Chris. Know that you have done a great job in raising him with superb values and leadership qualities.
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery and steady hands and minds for your caregivers.
From Fredi Olson
Dear Rich,
FYI, been there, done that. I’m almost at the end of my five years! It can be done and you can do it too! I hope you get some days where you can feel human again. That will help to re-energize you and keep you going.
I’m pulling for you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love to you and your family.
Fredi
From Marion
Dear Rich,
That is some son you have in Chris!
You must have a lot of faith right now that God will bring you through this illness. I will say prayers for you and your family.
Heavenly Father,
Please be with Rich as he goes through these draining cancer treatments. Wrap your arms around him, hold him tight, and give him the strength to carry on. Heal his body from head to toe so that he may live many more years to be a faithful servant to you. Also give his family the strength to get through the pain of seeing a loved one suffering. Give them your blessing of healing dear Lord.
In Jesus Name
Amen
God Bless YOU!
Marion
From M. Loretta Gray
Hi Chris and Rich:
My prayers are with you. You both will be Blessed. Continue to seek the best medical help available, and remain positive. Your loving son is doing the right thing by seeking the support of those who are out in the world every day fighting negative influences. Some of us have been through what you are being challenged with now and some of us have not. Prayers are good no matter the source. You and your Dad have mine and they are for his recovery.
Be Blessed,
M. Loretta Gray,
A fellow Net-worker
From nancy Hendricks
You will win this fight and yes there will be good days and bad days; but the good days will outweigh the bad days.
From Viv Deighton
Hi There Rich & Chris
The power of many praying for one should never be dismissed. My prayers are with you through this challenging time in your life.
“Prayer also offers you a way to leave the perspective of your challenges for a moment and commune at the level of God.”
In peace, light and with blessings
Viv Deighton
From Rob Couty
Mr. Zavadowski,
I wish you nothing but the absoutle best in your fight and I know the Good Lord will be with you as you overcome this illness. Know we all are behind you and are prayering for you every day.
Rob Couty
From Keats Boyd III
Chris & Rich:
My family has also been impacted by cancer. Just over a year ago my sister was diagnosed with stage three melanoma. It was a very difficult year for her and our entire family. Her cancer was just one more problem our family has had to face. My father-in-law, like you Rich, has a form of lymphoma, my cousin had to fight (and beat) leukemia, my wife’s step-father had a fall 6 years ago and has had to live with a spinal cord injury that has confined him to a wheel chair. Finally, my sister’s husband and my wife’s sister have both been fighting MS for several years.
There’s one thing I’ve learned from each of my family members - a positive attitude will make a huge difference. Each of my affected family members have each in their own way demonstrated incredible bravery. No complaints, no “poor me”. Just an honest determination to fight the best battle they can. Each of them more concerned for their family than for themselves.
I only hope that if I find myself in a similar situation I can respond as bravely.
My family has, in a strange way, been blessed. First, we have not yet lost anyone to their illness. God willing, it will stay that way for a long time. Second, they have each been, in their own unique way, an amazing example of courage and faith for our children and the rest of us. I do not want any of them to bear the burdens that they have, yet I have learned so much from each of them.
It has left me determined to do something to help. My approach has been to help find a cure. I’m using my website to raise $1,000,000 to find a cure.
Chris - your approach is wonderful and so personal. Rich, you and you family will be in my prayers. My God bless you.
Keats Boyd III
From Trevor Baret
Dear Chris and Rich,
So many are touched by cancer in this world today. I am sorry to hear about your current situation.
I am aware of the feelings which Chris must be experiencing now, as I too, had my father ill with cancer a little over two years ago. When a father and son are friends, there is a special bond which is (sadly) often left unspoken. I was fortunate to have had the time to be sure that all that needed to be said was said and felt in the heart, before my father’s very aggressive and terminal cnacer took his life. No therapy was available for him…
For Rich, I wish the greatest success with your treatment, and a very long, happy and healthy life ahead.
For Chris, I wish the strength and stamina to be able to support your father (as you have apparently already done) for the difficult times ahead during his recovery.
For you both, I wish you all of the love you could possibly want and need, and the times to share in the ways that only a loving father and son can possibly know.
My prayers are with you both.
Live well and prosper,
Trevor Baret
From Jilian S
Dear Chris & Rich,
My thoughts and prayers go out to both of you. Praying that all will be well and the treatment works.
Rich, keep your spirits up. Prayer is such an amazing healer!
Les Brown is one of my favourite mentors .
“The good times we put in our pocket. The hard times we put into our heart.” — Les Brown
You are all putting these hard times into your hearts. I know this just from the way Chris does his business online. Having a son like him is a wonderful thing!
With God’s blessings all will work out.
Love and Prayers for all of you.
Jilian
From Rick
Dear Rich
Wishing you the very best and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
May you and your family be strong during this time of challenge.
Rick
From Ed Blake
Well, Rich, my email address ed7640 tells you my birthdate 7-6-40. Seven years ago, I was hit by me second cancer. First one was not that bad, just a spot on the ear that came off in three hours, including reconstructive surgery. But in 2001, it was Prostate, and I lived the fear that comes with that notice. Both my parents had it when they died, years ago, and it scared me silly. I was to be in the hospital for six days after surgery to remove the Prostate, and it was 22 days before I got out. A little mistake caused me five more surgical procedures, with a couple days in the hospital each time through 2002. I was still scared.
What I saw in those around me, my wife, and friends who visited, along with my care-givers, made me try to make sure that my fear was not transferred to them. I will bet you have felt the same. You don’t know me, nor does your son, but when we all get through the events, we certainly know that not only is God with us, He is here constantly, with each and every one of us. I pray for your comfort and recovery, and your knowledge that God is with you.
Most sincerely,
Ed Blake
From Eugene
Dear Rich,
I am 78 years young and was diagnosed of prostate cancer 5 years ago.
I was scared.soon after I found a massagingbed which emmit cancer cel
killing Far Infrared Rays.It keeps me in shape ever since,but the most
important thing I learned is the positive attitude and believe in GOD.
I like jokes,funny movies and laugh a lot,that helps too.I recommend
to watch funny movies everyday and laugh a lot,that can cure you
with GOD’s help,so keep on laughing even when you have pain.
You are in my everyday prayers.
GOD bless you
Eugene
From Rosie
Keep in prayer. We’ve gone through it and with many prayers we have stayed strong. Though it is easier said than done to stay positive, we looked at each day we are given positively, and with faith and gratitude we can see things in a better light. It is hard, and we know where you are at , 2 + many times over. Our prayers are with you and may you receive strength and blessings in many ways. There is hope so hold on to that. With continued prayers your way, God Bless.
From Johann Malherbe
Dear Chris & Rich,
I would rather be practical and suggest something that might relieve some of the suffering. I have had success with SPORTRON’s ULTRAGARD and PHYTOGARD, both for fighting & preventing cancer, and preventing the bad effects of Chemo therapy.
I live in South Africa, but I believe you can also get these products in the USA - do an internet search.
Off Course my prayers will also be with you.
Johann Malherbe
From Ron F.
Hi Rich, Keep your faith In Hi Gear, as all the previous responses to Chris’ request asked that you do.God is the Master Physician and can assist your doctors. Rich some thirty years ago I found myself in a similar mindset as your Chris in the way I felt toward my Mom, and I had gone across the border to meet with Dr.Ernesto Contreras.(actually 37 years ago), Now is far better information around the world.
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From Eric Francois
Hi Chris
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever. He is still a healer.
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From Mary K Weinhagen
WOW! What an outpouring of LOVE here!
I want to share with you a powerful process that shifted things for me in amazing ways –
Choose a time when you have 15 minutes to yourself. Lie down and read this list slowly to yourself:
It is natural for my body to be well.
Even if I don’t know what to do in order to get better, my body does.
I have trillions of cells with individual Consciousness, and they know how to achieve their individual balance.
When this condition began, I didn’t know what I know now.
If I had known then what I know now, this condition couldn’t have gotten started.
I don’t need to understand the cause of this illness.
I don’t need to explain how it is that I’m experiencing this illness.
I have only to gently, eventually, release this illness.
It doesn’t matter that it got started, because it’s reversing its course right now.
It’s natural that it would take some time for my body to begin to align to my improved thoughts of Well-Being.
There’s no hurry about any of this.
My body know what to do.
Well-Being is natural to me.
My Inner Being is intricately aware of my physical body.
My cells are asking for what they need in order to thrive, and Source Energy is answering those requests.
I’m in very good hands.
I will relax now, to allow communication between my body and my Source.
My only work is to relax and breathe.
I can do that.
I can do that easily.
Now just lie there and enjoy the comfort of the mattress beneath you - and focus upon your breathing - in and out. Your goal is to be as comfortable as possible, forcing nothing.
You are likely to begin feeling soft, gentle sensations in your body. Smile, and acknowledge that this is Source Energy specifically answering your cellular request. You are now feeling the healing process. Do nothing to try to help it or intensify it. Just relax and breathe- and allow it.
If you’re experiencing pain when you laid down, follow the same process however, it would be helpful for you to add these words to your written and spoken list:
This sensation of pain is an indicator that Source is responding to my cellular request for Energy.
This sensation of pain is a wonderful indicator that help is on the way.
I will relax into this sensation of pain because I understand that it’s indicating improvement.
Now, if you can, drift off to sleep. Smile in your knowledge that All-is-Well. Breathe and relax - and trust.
You are loved!
–Mary K
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EXPECT MIRACLES!
From Bob
Chris -
If you can get him onto a diet of only alkaline and alkaline-promoting foods and get his pH up to 7.0 and above, no cancer can survive in an alkaline body. 100% of people with cancer have pH below 7.0. Read the book Alkalize Or Die, for instance.
A fast way to get his pH down is with bicarbonate of soda.
You can Google all the above.
From Nina Nestoroff
Hello Zavadowski Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know this is a scary time for all of you, but keep your faith in God and He will comfort you.
Blessings,
Nina Nestoroff
From elias
God is going to bring you through those challenges for you to be more stronger Bible says that Jesus came so that we can have life—abundant life! abundance of wisdom, an abundance of peace and health — everything you need Remember, your praise opens the door for Him to move on your behalf .
i will ask jesus for you always , God bless you.
From Carolyn McClendon
Dear Rich,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Although we don’t know the reason for God’s challenges in our lives, His path is always the perfect one. Keep your eyes on your bright and healthy future and stay positive. Know that your son has gathered a group of people together that through him feel an attachment to you and want to see you whole, healthy and filled with joy.
From Margarita Nomeikiene
Dear Chris at first :))))
Thank you for letter and opportunity to say my kindest words for you . A special for you personal and for everybody who are near loving ill people. I know - your’s pain is sometimes much bigger than people’s who is in ill. ( excuse my bad English:)))
I know this situation, because many years ago I was diagnosed from breast cancer . I can’t forget the eye of my dear son and daughter, my husband and others. I clearly know, that my live was saved from hers pray. Be strong in your’s believe - all by right ! All must be right!
Dear Rich - Dad !
Take my best wishes and pray for you! I know, you are a winner! What I can to suggest for you like a ,,Olympic coacher” from illness.:)))? There you must take a tactic like a ,,silent war” , because this enemy ,,mr./ mrs.Cancer” very want you a are left yours power on war. But you have a very special gun - there is your love for the life and for dear people you are loving. Never let the enemy be most important against your’s love! Take in your’s hands Olympic flame - this flame is Big Love for Life!
Sincerely,
Margarita from Lithuania.
From Sylvia
Dear Mr. Zavadowski,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Get Chris to find the video of Randy Pausch’s final seminar. It is a great inspiration to us all.
Sincerely,
Sylvia
From Nikhil Gangoli - Buddhism guide
Hello Rich,
I have a website on spirituality and so I have read something on death and the fear of death.
I would like to recommend 3 books to you. They are
1) The Tibetan Book on Living and Dying by Sogyal Rinpoche - This is a book on Tibetan Buddhism. It is a modern spiritual classic and is filled with inspiring accounts of persons facing death and how they dealt with it.
2) Life after Life by Raymond Moody - This book explores Near Death experiences and tells us by first hand experience why there are reasons to believe that life continues after death.
3) No Death No Fear - by Thich Nhat Hanh - there are exercises and meditations in this book that may be very useful for you in facing the emotional turmoil that you are going through right now.
I do not